Unspoken Attraction Between Two People

By Kwabena Okyire Appianing •  Updated: 04/02/22 •  7 min read

In simple terms, unspoken attraction means someone is attracted to you but they haven’t told you about it yet.  You may have noticed an attraction between you two but how can you tell for sure that they’re feeling what you feel?

This is why we put this article together to help you identify signs of mutual attraction between you two. 

What is mutual attraction?

Mutual attraction is when two people are attracted to each other. It could be that they have an unspoken attraction or they may have told each other about it

When it comes to u spoken attraction, let’s consider the signs that could prove two people have a mutual unspoken attraction. 

1. You miss them when you aren’t together

When you begin to think about someone or miss them when you aren’t together, this might be a sign that there is a strong attraction between you two. 

2. You feel nervous around them

One of the clearest signs of unspoken attraction between two people is when they begin to feel nervous around each other. It’s important to note that feeling nervous around someone may be a sign of an attraction. 

The truth is, you don’t have to tell them you like them for you to feel nervous around them nor do they have to tell you they like you for them to also feel nervous around you. 

It could also mean you care about each other a lot and especially what the other thinks of you and vice versa. 

3. You make sure you look good when you see them

If you find yourself primping a lot when a particular person is around  and also realize that the other person does the same,  then this could be an unspoken attraction between you two. 

You have to realize that you wouldn’t be trying to look your best if you didn’t care about that person.

4. They make excuses to touch you

When you realize that someone touches you more often, even if it’s innocent,  it could be a sign that they are interested in you.  You can even opt to tell that this indicates a mutual attraction if you are also interested in them.

5. You feel like you can tell them anything

If there is someone in your life that you feel you can talk to about anything,  then there is a possibility that there are some other things you like about them, and perhaps you feel more comfortable with them than with anyone else.  

This is a sigh of an unspoken attraction between you two. 

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6.  You’ve met their parents

It’s very important to note that most of the time, a person will not just introduce you to people in their family unless they are into you or that they feel something for you. 

Although meeting someone’s parents will mostly look like something casual, chances are, they are not.

7.  You can’t stop smiling

There is an  unspoken attraction between you two if you realize that once you are together, you smile all the time and you also notice that the other person also does the same when they are around you. 

It is a good thing as it may be a sign that you are mutually feeling an attraction and chemistry within your friendship. 

8. You don’t notice others around you

This is a surefire sign of an unspoken attraction between two people.  When you realize that even in the crowd you do not notice that other people are around or you do not notice that you are not the only person in the room once this person is present, then it is a sigh that you are attracted to them. 

It’s important at this point that you do your best ,to find out if the other person feels the same way. 

9. They pay attention to you

When you realize that someone is paying attention to you When they have the option to talk on their phone, do other things or even look around,  this may be a sign that they are attracted to you.  

If you are also interested in them, you should probably let them know because having someone listen to you without becoming distracted is  rare. 

10. You care what the other person thinks

Once you begin to find yourself wondering what a particular person would think about your actions, it could be you are attracted to that person. 

It becomes a mutual attraction once you realize you care a lot about them, especially what they think and most importantly, you are sure they feel the same way. 

11. You laugh when you’re with them

When it comes to finding out if there’s an attraction between a man and a woman, laughing a lot when they are together is a surefire sign. 

You may naturally be someone who laughs a lot but when you think of a person who makes you laugh most, this person quickly pops up. 

12. They ask you about your life

One major mutual attraction sign to look out for is when someone asks about your life and you realize they care a lot about what you have to say. 

You should take note that someone may be attracted to you If they expect you to elaborate on what is going on in your life. 

13. You talk to them every day

If there is someone you talk to every day and you always wonder what you would do if you were unable to talk to them in a day, then this could be a sign that you are attracted to them. 

There’s a good chance that this is a mutual attraction and if you really want to take it seriously, you should go ahead and let the other person know about your intentions.  

14. Even the silence is comfortable

Do you feel at home with this particular person even when you aren’t talking? This could be a sign of an unspoken attraction between you two.  

It is a mutual attraction if you realize they also feel comfortable around you. 

15. Nothing comes in between

The truth is, when you like someone, you try your best to get other things out of the way. For example,  if you are sitting across from them, you subconsciously keep aside anything that comes in between you two months be it books, your phone or even a cup of coffee. 

It becomes a mutual attraction between you two once you see the other person do the same too.  It’s natural that when two people are in time with each other, they remove every obstacle that comes between them. 

16. People start to comment about your connection

Most times you may not even realize it but rather,  others around you might start to talk to you about the connection between you and the person you are interacting with.  

This is a good sign because now, it may not be only you as others may have noticed that there is a chemistry between you two. 

17. You flirt with each other a lot

You are probably attracted to each other if you are constantly touching yourselves or you have jokes between you two that you don’t share with anyone else. 

18.  You do lots of things together

You might be attracted to someone if you realize you do almost everything with them. This may include going to the movies, taking part in fun activities or just hanging out with them.

If you realize that it is the same with them, then it probably means there is a mutual attraction between you two.

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Final Words

There are so many things to consider when it comes to unspoken attraction between two people.  As seen in this article, there are many signs that determine a mutual attraction going on between two people.

Kwabena Okyire Appianing